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  1. Dillian on Chapter 1 Wed 05 Aug 2015 12:23PM UTC

    LOL you should see me in person, I'm actually very lazy. But if I helped...

    I'm betting the rest helped a lot more. *hugs* Feel better.

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    1. - (Guest) on Chapter 1 Wed 05 Aug 2015 12:29PM UTC

      nods *
      thank you...
      p.s-its about time i tell u i like that avatar -lazy kitty.i always wondered why...now i know :)

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      1. Dillian on Chapter 1 Wed 05 Aug 2015 12:56PM UTC

        Take care of yourself hon, you've got a lot on your plate right now.

        Avatar is Pete the Cat, from a kids' book series. Pete is the essence of chill. Sometimes they overdo it a little bit, because stuff that really ought to upset someone, never seems to bother Pete at all, but there's a story about starting school, and how it could be kind of confusing and scary (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z00IY74qiPE), but does Pete worry? Goodness no. I've always had issues with anxiety myself, and I have a son with Asperger's Syndrome, which is ALL KINDS of anxiety, whenever anything is new or different, so I like that book a lot. And the art is just amazing, I would have Pete the Cat framed, on my walls.

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        1. - (Guest) on Chapter 1 Wed 05 Aug 2015 01:42PM UTC

          oh...i am so sorry...i didnt know.i hope that the surroundings understand your son s needs.but many kids with aspergers do have some unique talents ,so he could try to do something he likes .i do hope all will work out for him.
          now it s my turn to wish all the best to you and him

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          1. Dillian on Chapter 1 Wed 05 Aug 2015 02:24PM UTC

            Thanks, hon. My son's pretty high-functioning, you mostly notice it because he does get very stressed, very, very easily. It's because he doesn't process his emotions the way most people do, so a lot of times he doesn't know something's bothering him until he freaks out.

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            1. - (Guest) on Chapter 1 Wed 05 Aug 2015 02:43PM UTC

              u know,its called a syndrome only coz some1 said it is.if some1 is different ,it doesn't mean that they want to be treated differently.you just need to talk to him and try to help him express feelings before he gets angry.its not easy,but u have to be patient

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              1. Dillian on Chapter 1 Thu 06 Aug 2015 03:25PM UTC

                Thanks :)

                To me, the problem isn't how Bob is, it's that everyone around him is always different. Humans are a pack animal, like dogs, and he's more like a cat. If there were someplace where he was living with other cats, it would probably work out nice and peacefully, but teaching him to live with the dogs continues to be a challenge.

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                1. - (Guest) on Chapter 1 Thu 06 Aug 2015 03:31PM UTC

                  good thing that u r a cat (from that selfie of yours)
                  i can somehow relate with that.i was always so antisocial that it became problem.even now i cant be with some1 for a longer time(i dont mean months but on a daily basis),and the days can pass by without me saying a word...so i am pretty rusty when it comes to talking.i feel like being chocked when i have to meet someone ...i am just saying this so that bob can understand that there r more cat-like ones out there :)

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                  1. Dillian on Chapter 1 Thu 06 Aug 2015 04:40PM UTC

                    Yeah, I am pretty much of a cat in the way of personality, as well as in my avatar XD I think that's been a challenge for Bob, because if I were more social, I would have pushed him to get more practice being social himself. But he is learning. I don't think he'll ever be really great at it, but as long as he's comfortable on the job, and can get the connections he wants in life, I will be happy.

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                    1. - (Guest) on Chapter 1 Thu 06 Aug 2015 05:04PM UTC

                      it s great that u r so supportive. u can tell our son that i envy him at that point heh ...

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                      1. Dillian on Chapter 1 Thu 06 Aug 2015 09:00PM UTC

                        Thanks hon. *hugs*

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                        1. - (Guest) on Chapter 1 Fri 07 Aug 2015 05:02AM UTC

                          ditto!

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