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Am I the Asshole for Vaulting My Little Brother?

Summary:

All for One turns to reddit for family advice.

Notes:

This fic is a One for All October prize for SherlockianDemigod221, who wanted some vault time. It took me way too long to format this to look like a reddit post, and I’m proud of how it turned out. However, if the reddit post is difficult to read for anyone, then there’s a version fanfiction.net with no strange formatting/images, under my penname chibikaty: https://www.fanfiction.net/s/14162058/1/Am-I-the-Asshole-for-Vaulting-My-Little-Brother.

“Am I the Asshole” is a subreddit where people post about their interpersonal conflicts and ask internet strangers to judge who is wrong. In reddit speak, OP means Original Poster, AITA means Am I the Asshole?, NTA means Not the Asshole, YTA means You’re the Asshole, and ESH means Everyone Sucks Here.

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r/AmItheAsshole · Posted by u/DemonKingDeservedToWin 22 days ago.

AITA for protecting my little brother?

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I (25M) have a younger brother (20M) who I basically raised since he was a baby. Our parents were neglectful and abusive in ways that I would rather not discuss in this post. I became his legal guardian when I was only eighteen years old. It was a struggle, but I started my own business and became successful enough to provide for both of us. My younger brother has severe health problems. It is unlikely that he’ll ever be able to live on his own. He does not have a job. I’m committed to looking after him for the rest of his life. We are each other’s only family member.

Until recently, my little brother was always properly adoring and grateful toward me. I’ve become wealthy enough to shower him with gifts, including a new gaming station and his own car. However, over the last year he’s turned sullen and irrationally hostile. I believe he’s jealous of my healthy body and superior capabilities. I offered him a job at my business, even though he’s weak and has no useful skills. He claimed that he turned me down for ethical reasons.

My younger brother accused me of illegal activity. I took him along on one of my business deals in order to prove that everyone was involved willingly. My little brother threw a fit at the meeting and made a fool of himself. Then he tried to go to the police with my private business information that he stole off my computer. Obviously I have nothing to fear from the police, but it would hurt my business if proprietary information got shared. Also, my younger brother could get in legal trouble for stealing from me. I believe he had a mental breakdown.

In order to protect my little brother, I had no choice but to remove the information from his person and prevent him from going to the police. I have also grounded him and taken away all his toys.

Everything I did was for my brother’s own good, but he’s been banging on the walls and screaming about how he hates me now. It breaks my heart to be rejected like this after everything I’ve done for him. For his entire life, I’ve only tried to protect him.

AITA?

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pessimistforlife509 points · 22 days ago

I know I’ll get downvoted for saying this, but NTA. Your little brother sounds like a spoiled brat. His so-called ethical principle is an objection to working for a living like everyone else. You should throw the parasite out and let him fend for himself.

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theycallmesteve27 points · 22 days ago

LOL of course the most upvoted comment says “I know I’ll get downvoted for saying this.”

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pessimistforlife509 points · 22 days ago

Check out some of the replies below. People are drawing strange conclusions with no evidence. Reddit is full of entitled teenagers and twenty-somethings living in their parents’ basement. They see little brother as a fellow incel.

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DemonKingDeservedToWin10 points · 22 days ago

Thank you for your support. It’s very difficult to be a single parent. Throwing out my little brother is simply not an option. He wouldn’t survive a day on his own. He’s very fragile, physically and mentally.

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Moth_Milton121 points · 22 days ago

NTA, but you’re doing your little brother no favors by spoiling him like this.

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DemonKingDeservedToWin10 points · 22 days ago

You may be right. A few days in solitary confinement will hopefully end this silly rebellion.

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Moth_Milton121 points · 22 days ago

I’m confused. I meant you should encourage him to attend college or get a job. He can’t rely on you for the rest of his life.

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DemonKingDeservedToWin10 points · 22 days ago

I’m happy to support my dear little brother forever. However, I will continue encouraging him to join my business where he will be safe under my watchful eye.

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CatsNDogsAddict127 points · 22 days ago

INFO: What’s the unethical business? Are you in big tobacco? Because that would change my answer a lot.

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DemonKingDeservedToWin10 points · 22 days ago

Nothing I showed my little brother was illegal.

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CatsNDogsAddict127 points · 22 days ago

That’s not really an answer. I’m getting bad vibes from the whole “everyone is involved willingly” line. Are you a pimp?

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theycallmesteve27 points · 22 days ago

NTA, can I be your little brother? I’ll kiss your ass as much as you want if you support me while I laze around in my room and play video games all day.

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DemonKingDeservedToWin10 points · 22 days ago

I’m not taking brother applications, but I appreciate how almost everyone has been supporting me. If so many people think my little brother is pathetic and foolish, then it must be true.

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throwaway78343340 points · 22 days ago

This is going to be controversial, but ESH. Your brother sounds like a real pain in the ass, but you can’t take back gifts after they have been given. Then they’re not gifts, but rather a means of financial control. Plus your brother is way too old for you to ground him.

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pessimistforlife509 points · 22 days ago

I disagree, the little brother clearly played shitty games and won shitty prizes. Mister Moral Principles shouldn’t benefit from money coming from a business he tried to sabotage.

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Vigilante_Leader777 points · 22 days ago

There’s a lot of missing information here. Exactly what the hell did your brother accuse you of doing? You say you have nothing to fear from the police, but rich men rarely do. That ain’t the same as saying you’ve done nothing wrong. Why did you stop your brother from exposing your business practices? And HOW did you stop him? You said that you grounded him, but he’s a legal adult. You can’t stop him from leaving his room if he wants to.

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CrimsonKnight_1129 points · 22 days ago

I came looking for this comment!! Thank you!! OP reminds me way too much of my narcissistic parents. He talks about his brother as if he’s a small child. People are calling the little brother spoiled, but OP is the one who refuses to let his brother get a job. In his replies, OP mentioned putting his little brother in solitary confinement. The fire nation just invaded judging by all the red flags!! Is OP only going to reply to comments that agree with him?

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DemonKingDeservedToWin10 points · 22 days ago

I’m not replying to only comments that agree with me. My little brother has the mental capacity of a child.

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CrimsonKnight_1129 points · 22 days ago

Apparently he was smart enough to steal your business information. Explain what you mean by solitary confinement. What, did you kidnap him?

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DemonKingDeservedToWin10 points · 22 days ago

Ridiculous, it’s not kidnapping when it’s your family.

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CrimsonKnight_1129 points · 22 days ago

Yikes. That’s enough internet for me for today…

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pessimistforlife 509 points · 22 days ago

He means of course he wouldn’t kidnap his family. Way to jump all over the guy for a typo.

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r/AmItheAsshole · Posted by u/DemonKingDeservedToWin 8 days ago.

AITA for giving my little brother a present?

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I (25M) had an insignificant fight with my little brother (17M) a couple weeks ago. In order to appease him, I got him a very rare and valuable gift. He’s talked about wanting one ever since he was a small child. Also, he’s always been jealous that I have one and he doesn’t. But instead of thanking me, he screamed at me and called me names. I don’t want to take back the gift because I’m sure he’ll want it after he calms down. He’s prone to hysterical fits. AITA?

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ISwearIUsedToBeSmart19 points · 8 days ago

NTA, even if he didn’t like the gift then it would have been polite to pretend. Your little brother sounds very immature for his age.

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DemonKingDeservedToWin110 points · 8 days ago

I’ve often thought the same thing! Thank you.

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pessimistforlife509 points · 8 days ago

NTA, your little brother is toxic and you should cut him out of your life.

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DemonKingDeservedToWin110 points · 22 days ago

My friend Dr. G says the same thing, but I can’t bring myself to do it. He’s very precious to me, even if he is a fool.

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theycallmesteve27 points · 8 days ago

NTA, but do you seriously believe that you’re the asshole here or are you just looking for validation?

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DemonKingDeservedToWin110 points · 8 days ago

My little brother has been sulking so much that I started to wonder. He certainly thinks that I’m a monster.

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throw_away34520 points · 8 days ago

You’re NTA in this particular situation, but what did you fight with your brother about?

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DemonKingDeservedToWin110 points · 8 days ago

I’ve raised my little brother ever since our parents died, and even before then. Recently he’s developed a bad attitude. He invaded my privacy by hacking into my computer.

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throw_away34520 points · 8 days ago

Definitely NTA! But you should not give your little brother expensive presents when he acts out. I’m sorry you got parentified, I’m sure that makes it difficult to set boundaries. Please don’t give up on your little brother, he’s at a difficult age. I’m sure he’s traumatized from your childhood too. Therapy might help him.

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DemonKingDeservedToWin110 points · 8 days ago

I would never give up on my little brother.

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throw_away34520 points · 8 days ago

You’re a great big brother!

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Vigilante_Leader777 points · 8 days ago

I don’t think I can judge this situation without knowing exactly what you gave your little brother, which you suspiciously left out. But I read your first post, and I think you need to examine this pattern where you give your brother gifts, take them away, then give him more gifts to try and persuade him to do what you want. That’s some dysfunctional bs. Try talking to your little brother instead of reddit, and ask him why he didn’t want your gift. My guess would be that he knows there are strings attached. Also it’s freaking weird that your little brother gets younger every time you post about him.

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DemonKingDeservedToWin110 points · 8 days ago

I’m a very powerful and important man, so I need to obscure certain personal details so I can’t be identified. Clearly you’re an only child because you don’t understand normal sibling relationships.

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CatsNDogsAddict127 points · 8 days ago

If your “expensive gift” for your brother was a prostitute, then you’re messed up.

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Jrk3qi34q321 points · 8 days ago

NTA! The term gaslighting gets thrown around a lot on this sub, but this is the definition of gaslighting! Your brother told you that he wanted this present but now he’s trying to make you feel like you’re crazy. I suspect that your younger brother has both narcissism AND autism. The self-centeredness and meltdowns are a dead giveaway.

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DemonKingDeservedToWin110 points · 8 days ago

I googled narcissism and all the symptoms fit my brother! But I think autism would be more likely to help me get adult guardianship of him, so I will be pursuing that diagnosis instead. You have served me well.

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Vigilante_Leader777 points · 8 days ago

I can’t express my feelings without getting banned for excessive profanity again. Even Autism Speaks isn’t going to take away your brother’s legal rights because a redditor diagnosed him over the internet. Did you even ask him why he didn’t want your gift? Either you are omitting his answer because it makes you look bad or you have failed Communication 101.

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DemonKingDeservedToWin110 points · 8 days ago

Everyone else agrees with me. You are an annoying insect buzzing around my head. It is a serious flaw in reddit that I can’t block you. Maybe I’ll buy reddit and permaban you.

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r/AmItheAsshole · Posted by u/DemonKingDeservedToWin 3 days ago.

AITA for force-feeding my younger brother?

AmItheAsshole

I know the post title sounds bad, but hear me out.

Recently I (25M) had a silly argument with my little brother (15M). I punished him by moving him to a new bedroom. My younger brother stopped eating in protest. At first I thought he was merely throwing a tempter-tantrum, but he has refused to eat for five straight days. I became worried about his health and eventually I was forced to use a feeding tube. Since then, he’s stopped speaking to me. His immature behavior is breaking my heart. I don’t know why he won’t at least acknowledge me when I try to persuade him. I’ve been looking after him ever since we were both young children.

AITA for making the best possible medical decision to protect my little brother’s health?

Edit: Before you throw around wild accusations at me, remember that the silent treatment is abuse.

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Vigilante_Leader777 points · 3 days ago

Holy shit. Is this real? Force-feeding is very dangerous. You could have killed your brother, you abusive creep. This is above reddit’s pay grade. Put down your phone and get your little brother to the hospital right now. P.S. YTA.

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DemonKingDeservedToWin-111 points · 3 days ago

As expected from someone with such a stupid username, you’re making a lot of unwarranted assumptions. I would never risk my little brother’s health. I had a highly trained doctor carry out the procedure.

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Vigilante_Leader777 points · 3 days ago

Where did your doctor get his training, at the Andrew Wakefield Medical School of Malpractice? Your edit makes it even worse! Maybe your little brother isn’t speaking because you DAMAGED HIS THROAT. Get him to the hospital!

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DemonKingDeservedToWin-111 points · 3 days ago

Where did you get your so-called medical knowledge, you insignificant pest? I bet you’re a thirteen-year-old who spends all his time insulting adults on reddit because he has no friends.

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sc98kal221 points · 3 days ago

What in the sadistic child abuse world did I just read? Yes, you’re a huge gaping asshole! Force-feeding is a form of torture banned by the Geneva Convention! If your younger brother has an eating disorder then get him treatment. It’s very disturbing to me that you describe your little brother as “throwing a tempter-tantrum” when he’s clearly suffering from a severe mental health crisis. Probably because you’ve been abusing him.

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Vigilante_Leader777 points · 3 days ago

In his first post, OP says that his younger brother is 20. He keeps adjusted down the age to make himself look like less of an infantilizing creep.

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theycallmesteve27 points · 3 days ago

Whoa, nice catch. I want to change my answer to last two posts now. OP buried the lede deep underground.

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SomeQuestionsAreStupid654 points · 3 days ago

Everyone, stop downvoting the assholes. You’re misunderstanding the purpose of this sub. That said, OP is very much the asshole.

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theycallmesteve27 points · 3 days ago

YTA YTA YTA YTA

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support_our_police227 points · 3 days ago

YTA, this is the behavior I’d expect from your kind. Check out this guy’s post history, he’s metahuman.

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Vigilante_Leader777 points · 3 days ago

What does that have to do with anything? Why is this shitty bigoted comment being upvoted?

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theycallmesteve27 points · 3 days ago

Look at all the deleted comments. The hate groups have found this post. Clearly this is a creative writing project by OP designed to make metahumans look bad.

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r/AskReddit · Posted by u/[deleted] 2 days ago.

Please be my hero

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I need help, Reddit. My deranged older brother locked me up in a bank vault. He’s a criminal named All for One, and he trapped me in here to prevent me from exposing his crimes. I only got access to his phone because he threw it across the vault in a fit of rage when AITA didn’t support his very biased version of events. Can anyone give me tips about how to bust out of a bank vault? I have a plastic fork and a hairpin.

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banshee123554 points · 2 days ago

WTF did I just read? Is this the plot of a movie I haven’t seen?

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[deleted]0 points · 2 days ago

Serious replies only please, I’m in a lot of trouble. I don’t have much time before big brother takes his phone back. I need to delete my account before that happens.

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Vigilante_Leader777 points · 2 days ago

I’m very interested in any information about All for One. I don’t think you can bust out of a bank vault on your own, but I’ll come save you if you can give me your location.

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[deleted]0 points · 2 days ago

I’ll DM you. Thank you so much, hero.

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pessimistforlife559 points · 2 days ago

Stop feeding the troll. This is the fakest story in the entire history of reddit.

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