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  1. not so good...

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    1. I'm sorry :(

      Mourning takes time, especially family (human or otherwise).

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      1. tnx.i had a bad day in overall..i even deleted the whole story...

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        1. *sends good wishes and vibes* AO3 always saves you a file in case you change your mind later. Anything you can do now to destress and take care of yourself?

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          1. i did not know that.thank you...maybe i will...but i am very baaad right now,and not only for my lil buddy but...there r so many things in alliance with the misery and i am overwhelmed.... dont wanna mess up your day...like really.looking forward for the next chap.hvala

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            1. My advice (for what it's worth) is to go do something offline, or at least something as non-difficult and pleasant as possible, such as watching a movie. Or a really relaxing book? Or ...pick a hobby you like, that's not going to strain your brain. And if you've got any tendency toward depression, see if you can get some probiotics into you, such as sauerkraut or fermented pickles, or yogurt.

              ...There, you can really tell I'm a mom, can't you?

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              1. X)
                u made me smile...somehow i do forgot that ...since u seem so energetic and around the place.a super mom then lol
                yeah...i did all that.the pc runs the whole day,in case if the miracle happens n i get a positive answer from an employer(s).but i do work around the place...(the now empty place),movies are horrid...and cant watch those re-runs...anymore.i would recommend u to watch"tut" about tutankhamun-it s really nicely done.and the actors actually act. am reading few things,but right now i m heading for bed.i also got sick and just wanna be left alone

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                1. LOL you should see me in person, I'm actually very lazy. But if I helped...

                  I'm betting the rest helped a lot more. *hugs* Feel better.

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                  1. nods *
                    thank you...
                    p.s-its about time i tell u i like that avatar -lazy kitty.i always wondered why...now i know :)

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                    1. Take care of yourself hon, you've got a lot on your plate right now.

                      Avatar is Pete the Cat, from a kids' book series. Pete is the essence of chill. Sometimes they overdo it a little bit, because stuff that really ought to upset someone, never seems to bother Pete at all, but there's a story about starting school, and how it could be kind of confusing and scary (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z00IY74qiPE), but does Pete worry? Goodness no. I've always had issues with anxiety myself, and I have a son with Asperger's Syndrome, which is ALL KINDS of anxiety, whenever anything is new or different, so I like that book a lot. And the art is just amazing, I would have Pete the Cat framed, on my walls.

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                      1. oh...i am so sorry...i didnt know.i hope that the surroundings understand your son s needs.but many kids with aspergers do have some unique talents ,so he could try to do something he likes .i do hope all will work out for him.
                        now it s my turn to wish all the best to you and him

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                        1. Thanks, hon. My son's pretty high-functioning, you mostly notice it because he does get very stressed, very, very easily. It's because he doesn't process his emotions the way most people do, so a lot of times he doesn't know something's bothering him until he freaks out.

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                          1. u know,its called a syndrome only coz some1 said it is.if some1 is different ,it doesn't mean that they want to be treated differently.you just need to talk to him and try to help him express feelings before he gets angry.its not easy,but u have to be patient

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                            1. Thanks :)

                              To me, the problem isn't how Bob is, it's that everyone around him is always different. Humans are a pack animal, like dogs, and he's more like a cat. If there were someplace where he was living with other cats, it would probably work out nice and peacefully, but teaching him to live with the dogs continues to be a challenge.

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                              1. good thing that u r a cat (from that selfie of yours)
                                i can somehow relate with that.i was always so antisocial that it became problem.even now i cant be with some1 for a longer time(i dont mean months but on a daily basis),and the days can pass by without me saying a word...so i am pretty rusty when it comes to talking.i feel like being chocked when i have to meet someone ...i am just saying this so that bob can understand that there r more cat-like ones out there :)

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                                1. Yeah, I am pretty much of a cat in the way of personality, as well as in my avatar XD I think that's been a challenge for Bob, because if I were more social, I would have pushed him to get more practice being social himself. But he is learning. I don't think he'll ever be really great at it, but as long as he's comfortable on the job, and can get the connections he wants in life, I will be happy.

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                                  1. it s great that u r so supportive. u can tell our son that i envy him at that point heh ...

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                                    1. Thanks hon. *hugs*

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                                      1. ditto!

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